Kathryn Lee
LMHC, Founder, Supervisor & Psychotherapist
Meet Kathryn
I work with high/over achieving individuals who appear to have it all together - educated, successful, and capable - yet feel overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, or burned out from juggling the pressures and expectations of their careers, relationships, families, and personal lives. In my work, I support individuals navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, perfectionism, burnout, people pleasing, relationship challenges, and family dynamics, past and present.
As the eldest daughter of a Korean American family, born and raised in the New York area, I am no stranger to intensity, high expectations, and the pressure to succeed and understand the nuanced ways culture, identity, family expectations, and achievement can shape our relationships, careers, and sense of self. I recognize the delicate balance you may be navigating between honoring where you come from and creating a life that feels authentic to who you are. While your story will be uniquely your own, I bring both clinical expertise and lived experience into the therapy room, meeting you with curiosity and compassion.
While I draw from evidence based approaches, including EMDR, ACT, DBT, my work is always trauma-informed and relational personalizing therapy to your unique needs and goals. My style is collaborative, warm, empowering, practical, and both insight and action-oriented, blending evidence based treatment with authentic human connection to help you create meaningful and lasting change. When appropriate I will gently challenge you to address blind spots and consider an alternative perspective.
Outside of the therapy room, I create mental health content on Instagram (@chatwithkat_) and have been featured in various publications discussing mental health, relationships, burnout, and emotional well being.
Kathryn’s Why
Growing up in the intensity of city life, amidst diverse communities, constant expectations, and a long list of "shoulds," I spent years striving, overfunctioning, and pushing through burnout. Like many high achieving individualsI I learned to keep going at all costs, often ignoring what my body and mind were trying to tell me, until I couldn’t.
As I navigated my own physical and mental health journey, I recognized a gap in the mental health field. I longed for a therapist who not only had the clinical skills to help, but who also understood these experiences on a personal and cultural level. I wanted a therapist that looked like me, that could meet me where I was at without having to explain myself.
And so, I became the therapist I once needed and built the kind of practice I had been searching for, a space where clients can feel deeply seen, understood, and supported.
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Ed.M (Masters in Education), Mental Health Counseling, Columbia University
M.A (Master of Arts), Psychological Counseling, Columbia University
B.A, Political Science, Boston College
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Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
EMDR - Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
Integrative
IFS - Internal Family Systems
Motivational Interviewing
Narrative Therapy
Person-Centered
Positive Psychology
Psychodynamic
Relational
Trauma Focused
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High Functioning Anxiety & OCD
Burnout/Stress
Attachment Wounds & Relationship Patterns
Navigating Family of Origin Dynamics
Childhood & Complex Trauma
Life Transitions: Relationships & Major Life/Family Changes
Kathryn in the Media
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IDONTMIND: Ask a Therapist Series Contributor
Huffington Post: Thse are the Most Common Relationship Issues for Oldest Daughters, According to Couples Therapists
Wondermind: How to Prioritize When It’s All Too Much
Today: How To Be Happy Alone: 10 Ways to Become Your Own Best Friend
Today: How to be More Confident: 10 Expert Tips to Build Your Self Esteem
WebMD: Buprenorphine and Naloxone: Everything You Need to Know
WebMD: Xanax Detox: Everything You Need to Know
WebMD: Is Xanax Addictive?
WebMD: What is Fentanyl?
Camille Styles: “Does Instagram Posting Give You Anxiety? A Therapist on How to Work Through It—and When to Call It Quits.
Camille Styles: “It’s a Season of Growth and Becoming”—A Therapist Explains How to Thrive When You’re Living Alone
Camille Styles: Feeling Overwhelmed at Work? A Psychotherapist Shares How to Beat Burnout Before It Starts
Camille Styles: 4 Tips to Beat Vacation Guilt
Camille Styles: How to Find a Therapist
Bustle: 11 Texts To Send A Friend When You Want To Check In
MadHappy, Local Optimist: How to Combat Intrusive Thoughts
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Healing Your Inner Child Workshop with Eldest Daughter Club, 2024
Soar Over Hate Care Fair 2022, 2023 Healing Circle Facilitator
Soar Over Hate, Heal over Hate Series 2023
NYU Stern SWIB Mental Health Panelist 2023
Saks Off Fifth in collaboration with Asian Mental Health Collective and Asian Not Asian Podcast
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Psychotic symptoms in mass shootings v. mass murders not involving firearms: findings from the Columbia mass murder database, Psychological Medicine, 2021
Victimology of Mass Shootings and Mass Murders Not Involving Firearms, Violence and Victims, 2023
An analysis of motivating factors in 1,725 worldwide cases of mass murder between 1900-2019, The Journal of Forensic Psychiatry & Psychology, 2023
An analysis of 105 female perpetrators mass murders, Journal of Forensic Sciences. 2024